You're not anybody's fallback plan. You're not an option, neither are you a thought-in-passing. You're not anyone's "No.1". You're either "the only one" or you're not the one at all. You're not an item off someone's check list. If their eyes aren't open to see the remarkable person/blessing that you are, then that's on them!
I don't want you to ever feel like you're doing too much or too little. Love will find you where you are — just as you are and you can take your time to grow & blossom at your own pace. Whoever said you had to conform to this world to attract a partner, or to be the "right" partner? Whoever said you're not good enough? They lied!!! You're more than enough! Heck, you're more than ’more than enough’. Don't see yourself the way the world sees you, 'cos to be fair, the world sees you through broken lenses. See yourself the way ABBA sees you; redeemed, justified & loved by Him. You're the apple of GOD’s eyes. You’re His perfect reflection.
You're incredible! You're amazing!! and You're beautiful!!! You're not a leftover snack, you're not common. You’re Godsend! Keep yourself holy & pure and separated from all the drama in this world. Keep yourself from having sex outside of marriage. Preserve your purity. You're not defined by your past mistakes; you've got a clean slate in Christ and today’s a new day to start afresh if you think you need to. There’s grace for you to. Don't sell yourself short by giving marriage privileges to a talking stage relationship; 'cos honestly, nothing's truly certain until you're married-married!
— With Love, From Love 💖
Side Note:

One of my favourite things to do every week, it to watch out for
’s ‘Christ Walk’ publication on Substack. Her timely deliveries deliver heaven’s deliverables in a way that’s easy to digest but hard to forget. This week, she shared something truly remarkable and eye opening and it’s something everyone needs to be reminded by. It’s titled “In Christ there is death” and if you’re unfamiliar with Jesus & all that He did to free the entire human race from the eternal bondage of sin, then this is perfect to learn something (not new, but) an age-old truth. It’s a one minute read, so please dive in and let me know how much it blesses you. Love you! 💖
The first paragraph is everything I needed to hear right now
Thank you for sharing 👏👏👏👏
I'm grateful to you for this🤎
God's love is truly infinite and He continuously shows us that every single time🌺